10 Messed-Up Messages About Your Body & Sexuality That Are Limiting Your Pleasure

Females are supposed to look innocent, prim, and chaste.  The ones who look openly sexy are "bad" and will be judged by others and are opening themselves up to sexual assault, which may be interpreted as their fault because of their provocative attire or flirtatious behavior.  Don't dress for beauty or sensuality or sexiness.  If you do, you will not be taken seriously, and you will get in trouble, if not danger.

Erotic Intelligence

John Gardner's theory of multiple intelligences has one called Kinesthetic Intelligence. Proproioception - knowing where your body is in space. Eye-hand coordination. Physical grace. The ability to move your limbs together in concert in a way that facilitates dancing - or even walking or running - well. Admittedly, among my many gifts, kinesthetic intelligence is not a strong suit. I'm kind of a kutz.

The Nice Guy's Guide to A Turned-On Life: with more fun, more respect, and more sex

I adore men.  It breaks my heart that women so misunderstand you.  And it pisses me off that so many of the good things that have happened for (at least some) women in the past 50 years have created such funky dynamics between empowered women and the good guys who love them.  We emasculate you and ask you to contort yourselves in so many ways.  Not today, my darlings.  The following list of invitations is my way of calling you forward in all your masculine glory.

Sensation, Spirituality, and Sustainability: Fruits of a Turned-On Relationship

Most of my readers consider themselves pretty progressive, liberated, and new-fangled (rather than old-fashioned), right? Do you? I do, too, but I've also realized, in my quest for deep satisfaction and happiness in relationship, that I've had to drop layer after layer of old conditioning, belief, story, and cultural more, in order to forge the relationship I enjoy with Kurt today. 

Your Desires Want to Set the Record Straight

They wanted me to pass along a few messages, 'cause they've noticed you don't give them the kind of attention they deserve.  They're guessing it's because you don't really know what they're for or how they can help you, your relationship, and your magnificent work in the world.  But they (with a little scribin' help from moi) can set the record straight.  Here goes.

7 Reasons To Master Your Own Power

My company is called Working with Power and I help people integrate their power.  Often they hire me to help them develop more executive presence or to grow a business or find the love of a lifetime, but underneath all these objectives are the following seven motivations.  Our power is a compelling and worthwhile area of study and set of skills to master and these reasons are the Why of Working with Power.